This post is a tribute to one of my friend who has just stepped into the blogosphere….
The thoughts that he started, and began with all glory and might, I will continue and elaborate. Why the girls of this contemporary age has turned into something extremely non feminine…I must repeat that not all girls are like this but true most are…rather almost all are...The true explanation or excuse that a girl would give that in a society with all the ravage and roving men around, how can one be better? The very reason for which they are called the weaker or the fairer sex is somewhere disintegrating in every "SHE" society…
If life was all about the brighter parts of the relationship its true that it would have been much nicer but somewhere it's the flavor of this complexities that makes life vibrant and variant…
The word true love is more a "nerds" world these days where it's all about one night stands and its pleasures…The level of confinement towards personal profits out of every relationship is somewhere become an idiosyncrasy for women…
The world out there is a cruel one…The girls are no longer the tamer , understanding kind…and sadly the mental complexity of these softer beings has made it even more specific…
The disregard to every relation starting from friendship, somewhere makes me feel that one should really not fall in love…but reciprocate if someone loves you…
I do not know why I am saying all these today…or it the grudge towards women or the fidelity towards life that somewhere bites me very deep inside…I always was a firm believer that no one can understand a boy better than his mom, sister and to generalize someone of the opposite sex…I always thought it was easier to feel it for you can well distinguish between the two, but somewhere today though I haven't changed my belief, I have grown one more opinion…
It might be they understand you better but they never will or even try to ,and even if they do it would never be a selfless one…We guys are the worst creatures on earth, even if that fact is accepted , it doesn't give them a reason to be so selfish and cruel or even so mean at times…
From my personal experience I have somewhere felt that most girls are ungrateful in the truest sense of the term…its not always a "Give and Take" relationship but every relationship exists on trusts and certain expectations…And the better you live up to it the better it flourishes…
I loved them…and I would do…but may be I hate them even more…and when you really hate the ones you once loved it somewhere magnifies it all…Its true that most would be "Move On Yaar!!!" but the fact that I cared doesn't let me do so quite easily…
Do not draw conclusion on me being a loser in life or love but being experienced with some unexpected behavior (specially from some close friends) I cannot be all praises for the better half of the human society!!!
Long ago it was Eve…then it was Sita…after that it seems the tradition has been picked by them all…The woman behind the successful man is always a singular but the two behind every failure does emphasize on the legacy…
I do not hate girls but the respect seems to fade away courtesy their actions…It's really embarrassing to be writing so much against someone knowing the several flaws in us…yet I would still say the pretence that I have seen in many has left me confounded…I dread it all now….friends or foes in thee real world all is alike…for when the sense of sheer self orientation steps in…it not only ruins the relation (whatever may it be)…but plants the seeds of mistrust in everyone seeking it….
P.S. –"There is one exception…and it's the vibrance that's gonna prove me right"
Comments
But, why do you object if women have become less tame? That is not always the reason for them becoming more regardless of friendship and love. The reason is that they still don't get ample respect in the society when they deserve it so much.
The way I see it...if you tread along the negative spheres of life...what more can you possibly lose....